The decision is yours and yours alone, there is no-one to make that choice for you. Love is commonly where we find it. To drop deeply in love with some one is quite simple but to keep it living after their relationship is quite hard. Occasionally you might perform the position of the victim by providing and never obtaining equally inturn, or you could accept the opposite position of the abuser, where you continually get without ever being satisfied. Furthermore, the positive attitude alive has been related to faster healing from injuries and diseases.